Domestic Violence and Intimate Partner Violence
Domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence (IPV), dating abuse, or relationship abuse, involves a pattern of behaviors where one partner seeks to exert power and control over the other in an intimate relationship.
It affects individuals regardless of race, age, gender, sexual orientation, religion, education level, or economic status, making anyone capable of being a victim or a perpetrator. Such behaviors can include physical harm, intimidation, manipulation, and coercion, forcing a partner to act against their will. This abuse can manifest as physical violence, threats, emotional manipulation, or financial control.
Warning signs of abusive behavior in a partner:
Additionally, even one or two of these behaviors in a relationship is a red flag that abuse may be present.
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Criticizing you by saying you never do anything right.
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Exhibiting extreme jealousy over your friendships or time spent apart.
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Discouraging or preventing you from spending time with friends, family, or peers.
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Insulting or belittling you, especially in front of others.
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Undermining your ability to make decisions about your work or education.
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Controlling household finances without consultation, such as taking your money or refusing to cover necessary expenses.
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Pressuring you into sexual activity you’re uncomfortable with.
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Coercing you to use drugs or alcohol.
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Intimidating you with threatening looks or actions.
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Criticizing your parenting or threatening to harm or take away your children or pets.
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Using weapons like guns, knives, or bats to intimidate you.
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Damaging your personal belongings or property.